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10 Doms Online by Unknown
Filed in: dominance, humor, newbies, online

1. The 'I Am Dom Hear Me Roar' Dom: All shiny new leather wear, with a belt full of toys (just bought at Jack's Whip-O-Rama). Of *course* he knows what to do! He read SM101...and even watched Ex[...]

The Process Of Selection by Master Eso
Filed in: relationships, dominance, d/s, dating

As unromantically as it sounds, the slave is initially the only one who can properly judge if she can meet, fulfill and serve a Masters requirements, needs and wants, and match it against her own desires.

Knights vs. Gods by Master Eso
Filed in: dominance, definitions

A Master is not a “Knight in Shining Armor”. More so then anything else a slave’s Master and Owner is a slave’s “God”.

Irresponsible Masters by Mystik
Filed in: dominance, submission, definitions

Awareness is for the submissive as well...

The Dominant by By TorqueDom
Filed in: dominance

Above all else he cherishes his submissive, in the knowledge that the gift she gives him is the greatest of all. He is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to him, but knows how t[...]

Sample Consensual Contract by Author Unknown
Filed in: dominance, submission, contracts

This contract is provided as a secure and binding agreement which defines in specific terms the relationship and interaction between two individuals, hereafter termed the slave and the master (both terms are intended to be independant of sex).

The Master II by Author Unknown
Filed in: dominance, inspirational

What should a Master be? The question can only be answered individually by both Masters and fledglings alike. Here is my rendition of what a Master should be.

Learning to Be a Dom by Master Demetrius
Filed in: dominance, newbies

Even though I'd had Dom impulses all my life, I still had to travel the same learning curve that any Dom does. It's one thing to have an impulse, and quite another to learn how to act on it effectively. That learning process is what this article is all about.

The Responsibilities and Duties of a Dom by LES IS MORE(m)
Filed in: dominance

additional thoughts supplied by Dominant Silent Intruder are enclosed with an *

What Should a Dominant be? by Lord Wolf
Filed in: dominance, definitions

A few personal speculations about the lifestyle and those who participate in it...what follows is my opinion and in no way states Mine is the only path to follow. there are many differing opinions out there and I suggest you seek them all.

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